The Lovers

Concord

“The course of true love never did run smooth.”

A Midsummer Night’s Dream

The Lovers at a glance

Finbarre’s interpretation: The Lovers represents relationship, attraction and choices that reveal what a person values.

Uprightlove, union, choice, alignment, vulnerability
Reverseddisharmony, misalignment, temptation, indecision, incompatible values
Linked cardThe Devil
SoundtrackNeed You Tonight by INXS
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Upright meanings

  • Love
  • Union
  • Choice
  • Alignment
  • Vulnerability
  • Mutual recognition
  • Shared values
  • Honest communication
  • Attraction with responsibility
  • A consequential decision

Reversed meanings

  • Disharmony
  • Misalignment
  • Temptation
  • Indecision
  • Incompatible values
  • Divided loyalty
  • Self-betrayal
  • Unspoken conflict
  • Attraction without agreement
  • A choice being avoided

The Lovers in a reading

AreaMeaning
LoveRelationship energy: Mutual attraction, honesty and chosen commitment. Reversed: Chemistry without compatible values or intentions.
CareerWork: Partnership or a values-based career choice. Warning: Collaboration without clear agreement.
MoneyFinancial theme: A shared decision requiring explicit priorities. Warning: Spending or committing solely to please another person.
FeelingsUpright: Loving, attracted and willing to be seen. Reversed: Divided, conflicted or tempted away from stated values.
AdvicePrioritise: Name the choice beneath the attraction. Watch for: Preserving options at the cost of integrity.
OutcomePotential: A relationship or decision becomes aligned. Obstacle: Incompatibility or avoidance divides the path.
Yes or noYes, when the choice is consistent with your values.

Symbols in The Lovers

SymbolMeaning
The angelThe winged figure presides above the couple, placing the relationship within a larger moral or spiritual order. The angel's position also suggests protection and judgement.
The naked figuresTheir lack of clothing conveys vulnerability, innocence and direct exposure. Nothing material separates them, but their different gazes complicate the flow of attention.
The two treesThe Tree of Life stands behind the man, while the tree with the serpent stands behind the woman. Together they evoke knowledge, mortality, desire and consequence.
The mountainThe rising ground between the figures can be read as aspiration, challenge or the distance that remains even within intimate union.
The sunThe large sun illuminates the entire scene. It suggests consciousness, openness and a relationship brought into full visibility.

A. E. Waite's original description

The sun shines in the zenith, and beneath is a great winged figure with arms extended, pouring down influences. In the foreground are two human figures, male and female, unveiled before each other, as if Adam and Eve when they first occupied the paradise of the earthly body. Behind the man is the Tree of Life, bearing twelve fruits, and the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil is behind the woman; the serpent is twining round it.

The figures suggest youth, virginity, innocence and love before it is contaminated by gross material desire. This is in all simplicity the card of human love, here exhibited as part of the way, the truth and the life. It replaces, by recourse to first principles, the old card of marriage, which I have described previously, and the later follies which depicted man between vice and virtue. In a very high sense, the card is a mystery of the Covenant and Sabbath.

The suggestion in respect of the woman is that she signifies that attraction towards the sensitive life which carries within it the idea of the Fall of Man, but she is rather the working of a Secret Law of Providence than a willing and conscious temptress. It is through her imputed lapse that man shall arise ultimately, and only by her can he complete himself. The card is therefore in its way another intimation concerning the great mystery of womanhood.

The old meanings fall to pieces of necessity with the old pictures, but even as interpretations of the latter, some of them were of the order of commonplace and others were false in symbolism.

Waite's original divinatory meanings

Upright:

Attraction, love, beauty, trials overcome.

Reversed:

Failure, foolish designs. Another account speaks of marriage frustrated and contrarieties of all kinds.

Source: A. E. Waite, The Pictorial Key to the Tarot, first published in 1910, with illustrations by Pamela Colman Smith.

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Written and interpreted by Finbarre Snarey, tarot researcher, founder of the British Tarot Archive and coordinator of the UK living heritage submission for Rider-Waite-Smith tarot reading practice.

These interpretations reflect Finbarre Snarey’s understanding of contemporary Rider-Waite-Smith tarot practice. They are provided for education, reflection and entertainment only and should not be treated as medical, legal, financial, psychological or relationship advice.